Choosing the right toy starts with knowing what suits your body best. Learn how to select shapes and features that deliver maximum comfort and pleasure.
Let’s be honest—shopping for a sex toy should feel just as exciting as using one. But with so many buzzers, benders and bonkers gadgets out there, finding the perfect one can feel a bit... overwhelming.
Whether you're dipping a curious toe into the world of pleasure or you're already down the rabbit hole (pun 100% intended), this guide is your trusty sidekick to help you choose the toy of your dreams. And yes, we've linked all our faves so you can explore without getting lost in a sea of silicone.
Step 1: What kind of pleasure are you craving?
Different strokes for different folks (literally). Here’s how to narrow it down:
- External pleasure seeker? Say hello to Clitoral Stimulators. Think suction toys, bullets and vibrators that'll have your toes curling in seconds.
- Into deep, internal vibes? Check out Dildos or Rabbit Vibrators. These multitasking marvels hit all the right spots.
- Curious about backdoor play? There are plenty of beginner-friendly Anal Toys, booty-bliss guaranteed.
- Spicy play for two? Dive into Couples Toys for next-level intimacy.
Step 2: What’s your experience level?
Whether you’re a curious cat or a seasoned adventurer, there’s a toy that’ll feel just right:
- Newbies, we got you: Start with a no-fuss bullet vibrator, a simple dildo, or a silky-soft starter bondage kit. Bonus: our All Sex Toys page has plenty of easy-going options.
- Mid-level mischief-makers: Try something with a little extra — think remote control toys, dual-stim vibes, or thrusting rabbit vibrators (oh yes, they exist).
- Advanced adventurers: You’re ready for app-controlled delights, thrusting machines, or toys that look like they belong in a sci-fi film. Check our Remote Control collection if you’re into techy thrills.
Step 3: Pick your pleasure style
Here’s your cheat sheet for matching toy types to your vibe:
- Vibrators: Bullet, wand, rabbit — we’ve got all the vibes. Explore the full Vibrators collection.
- Dildos: Perfect if you prefer manual control or want something ultra-realistic. Dildos are your jam.
- Strap Ons: Feeling switchy? Our Strap Ons are here for it.
- Bondage & BDSM: From fluffy cuffs to full-on kits, our Bondage selection is ready to play rough.
- Cock Rings: Rock your (or your partner’s) world with our firm yet flexible Cock Rings.
Step 4: Safety & satisfaction go hand-in-hand
- All Shhh!Box toys are body-safe (read: non-toxic and phthalate-free).
- Use water-based lube for silky-smooth play.
- Clean your toys with toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap after each use. It’s not just hygienic — it makes your toys last longer too.
Step 5: Shop smart, play hard
Every Shhh!Box order is packed discreetly (no awkward postman convos), and we offer free UK shipping over £50. Returns? No worries. Our 14-day returns policy is there if you change your mind.
Ready to find your new favourite toy?
Browse All Sex Toys or dive into a specific collection that tickles your fancy. Need a curated surprise? Our iconic Shhh!Box toy kits are a great way to try something new.
Psst... don’t forget to check out our blog for more cheeky guides, top picks and pleasure inspo. You deserve it.
